The following is a letter written to Clay's co-workers giving them a brief synopsis of his trip to rescue our daughters.
Since many have asked, I figure I’ll give you a not so very brief overview of how it all went down…
Originally, I began to make plans with a couple of friends (another adoptive Dad and a friend from Haiti) to leave on Friday the 22nd and fly into Port au Prince. We scheduled our flights, then they were canceled because no flights were being allowed into Haiti (we kind of thought this would happen). Another friend was already scheduled to fly from Boston on Tuesday the 19th with a team – Most of the team backed out so we rearranged the team and eventually came up with 10 people to travel together – Boston to JFK to Santo Domingo D.R. - Before leaving we managed to arrange a bus to take us from Santo Domingo to Port au Prince. We all met in Boston and checked 112 bags (plastic bins) at close to 6,000# of supplies for the orphanage (mostly peanut butter, formula, diapers, etc). Delta waived more than $25,000 in baggage fees (I am now a big fan of Delta).
Once we were in Santo Domingo we loaded all of our supplies onto the bus and picked up two photographers from Denmark – We were not going to let them come with us, but then we decided that they could fork over some money for the bus so we invited them along. While in the D.R. we needed to pick up some more supplies (diesel and rice) but none of us spoke Spanish. Nanna (the Danish Photographer) had limited Spanish speaking ability, but not enough to order a burger at the airport – We took her with us to by the supplies since she was the best we had – To her own amazement as soon as we got in the car with the driver she was speaking Spanish as if she spoke it every day of her life (we attribute this to God). Anyway, we picked up the rest of the supplies and headed to the border. We arrived at the Haitian border sometime in the night – We had planned to sleep on the bus and cross the border at about 6:00am with a military escort for safety. At 3:00am the border police woke us up and told us we had to leave at that moment, with no escort. We were a little nervous but we headed to PAP – Other than the typical bad Haitian roads it was an easy ride and we never ran into any “bad guys”.
We arrived in downtown PAP at about 6:00am – there were people everywhere but we found a safe place to transfer all of our stuff from the bus to the box truck that is owned by the orphanage. The only problem was that there was no room left for the people – We put one guy on top of a bunch of stuff in the back of a pick-up, a bunch of people in the cab of the pick-up and box truck and five of us stood on the back bumper of the box truck and held on for dear life. Believe it or not, other than the fact that we were all white, it probably didn’t look all that strange to the locals.
The rest of the week is a bit of a blurr – We spent a lot of time (4 days) at the American Embassy trying to arrange for the release of the kids (with all of the kids we were making arrangements for) and the rest of the time at the church where the kids were staying – Incidentally, all of the kids (about 120) were ok although a little scared. The kids had moved from the unsafe houses that they were living in to the yard of their church – They slept outside until the day before we got there when a supply of donated tents arrived. While at the orphanage I slept outside, which was great for me – the weather was nice and it never rained.
As of Saturday night we had received humanitarian parole for 57 of the kids which meant that they were free to travel to the U.S. (one of my two girls was in this group). We worked at the embassy all day Sunday to try to secure parole for more kids – At about 10:30 or 11:00pm Sunday night we had parole for about 10 more kids (including my other daughter) – We already had a plane scheduled to take us out of Port au Prince on Monday morning, but at that time the President and Prime Minister of Haiti changed the rules and we were told that we had to leave immediately or we would not be allowed to leave (with the kids). We made a call back to the orphanage and the team then pulled 57 kids out of their tents, loaded them onto a box truck and drove them to the airport. Those of us that were still at the embassy finished getting the parole for the additional kids – then they loaded us onto a small bus with a couple of Federal Agent (with machine guns) and drove us into the airport using a back entrance.
By the time my group got to the airport the first group was already in the air headed to Sanford, FL. We were processed and waited for the next available flight – We flew out on an Air Force C-130 cargo plane which was kind of cool. At this point I assumed that we were past the bulk of the red tape and we would be headed home shortly. Little did I know that it would take three days in Florida before I could finally bring my girls home. We spent quite a bit of time in Sanford being processed and then we needed to be moved to Miami to get everything completed. The Health and Human Services department planned for 15 passenger vans to pick us up for the 4.5 to 5 hour ride to Miami – That didn’t sound like a good idea with a bunch of kids who had not slept and had just eaten food that they are not used to (I’ll spare you the details of the results). Thankfully, my wife was able to get a 737 donated to come from Atlanta and pick us up in Sanford to fly us to Miami (again, this was a “God-thing”)– A 45 minute flight was sounding pretty good – Needless to say I am now a fan of Vision Airlines - super no-frills flying, but better than driving. After a couple of days in Miami we were able to finally fly home – We arrived home early Thursday morning and have been adjusting to our “new normal” ever since.
The girls are adjusting very well, all things considered (they still fear earthquakes and have nightmares) and are even getting their hair “done” today. They will start school on Monday. After almost three years in the adoption process, we now have to start all over since it is no longer an international adoption – But that’s ok, because we know how the process works in the U.S. and the girls are now with our family – no more waiting.
I could go on and on, but I think you’re probably getting bored by now. Just as a last note – I normally try to keep my beliefs a little low-key around the work-place, so you can stop reading now if you would like me to keep it that way…Before I left I prayed that whatever happened it would be so clearly beyond anything that I could carry out on my own that I would have no choice but to give God all of the credit. I had one main goal – To get my girls home. I believe that without God’s help (often through people like you) there is no way I would be going home tonight to all five of my kids under one roof. The good that has come from this tragedy in Haiti is 100% a result of God’s goodness and 0% related to my (or the team’s) abilities or efforts. God answered my prayer - God is good.
Again – All this to say…Thanks!
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Friday, January 29, 2010
January 12, 2010....
I am sitting here tonight reflecting on the past 2.5 weeks. Beginning with the call from Dad Deeter on January 12 sharing with us the devastating news of the earthquake in Haiti.
For all of us in this house we will remember that day like many people remember when Kennedy was shot and when the Twin Towers came down. For me, I knew instantly it was bad but never in my wildest dreams did I fathom HOW bad. All in an instant we had to learn to be present for our children here all while being completely terrified for our children there. Within 2 hours we were witness to God's first miracle for us in what has been 2.5 weeks of miracles! We learned our children and all the children of HIS Home were ok! SO many families didn't hear word of their loved ones for days and we were blessed to know within a few hours!
As dawn broke and the images of the devastation began pouring in, Clay and I knew, even though we didn't dare utter it to one another, that this could possibly be the way our girls would finally come home!
For all of us in this house we will remember that day like many people remember when Kennedy was shot and when the Twin Towers came down. For me, I knew instantly it was bad but never in my wildest dreams did I fathom HOW bad. All in an instant we had to learn to be present for our children here all while being completely terrified for our children there. Within 2 hours we were witness to God's first miracle for us in what has been 2.5 weeks of miracles! We learned our children and all the children of HIS Home were ok! SO many families didn't hear word of their loved ones for days and we were blessed to know within a few hours!
As dawn broke and the images of the devastation began pouring in, Clay and I knew, even though we didn't dare utter it to one another, that this could possibly be the way our girls would finally come home!
It's been a long time.........
Hey y'all! I know everyone is asking me to write a blog....and here's the secret...I started one long ago but never kept it up. After the past 2 weeks of craziness, I do believe now is the best time to start over!
So hang on cuz I am preparing to take you on a ride with us. You will be tired of hearing from me...writing is the best way for me to work out things in my mind. I am probably going to be blatantly honest and I hope you will still love and support us through the muck and mud. It's going to be a sweet adventure but with all adventures there will be bumps in the road.
Thank you to everyone who has prayed for us, listened to me cry, encouraged me, slapped me around when I needed it and just supported our family!!!
I'll be posting soon. I PROMISE!
So hang on cuz I am preparing to take you on a ride with us. You will be tired of hearing from me...writing is the best way for me to work out things in my mind. I am probably going to be blatantly honest and I hope you will still love and support us through the muck and mud. It's going to be a sweet adventure but with all adventures there will be bumps in the road.
Thank you to everyone who has prayed for us, listened to me cry, encouraged me, slapped me around when I needed it and just supported our family!!!
I'll be posting soon. I PROMISE!
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